Am I over thinking things?
Today has been a STRESSFUL day! All was well until I picked my girls up from school. Chloe, my 9 year old daughter has been talking about a boy in her class a lot recently. Saying things like "He told me he's got a crush on me" It's got me a little worried and really on edge.
Well anyway, Today - Chloe comes out with this boy and puts me on the spot asking "Can I go to NO NAME house today?" The boys Mum was standing there next to me saying Yes , sure that's fine but my head was screaming NOOOOOOO! I totally panicked and told Chloe that we were busy and she couldn't go today but maybe another.
Once we got home I completely lost all sense and told Chloe she's NEVER going to go to his house as I don't want her in boys houses. I feel like I may have completely over reacted and dealt with this whole situation completely wrong.
I know she's 9 but I just don't want her alone with boys in their houses at this age. Am I being wrong or thinking too much into it? Kids these days are always talking about things that they really shouldn't. I don't want my little girl growing up too fast.
What would you do, would you let her go? I would love your opinion on this matter. It's really stressing me out as I know she's going to ask again soon and next time, what am I going to say?